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Is It Really Better To Give Than Receive? Why I Don’t Think This Is True.

  By Valen September 4, 2015 December 23, 2015 relationships
giving and receiving

I recently had a huge awakening about giving and receiving. I thought my heart was open. After all, I had been working on showing unconditional love to others and to myself. However, when it came to receiving, I realized my heart was completely shut. I didn’t know how to receive. … Continue reading

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The Best Relationship Advice I’ve Ever Received From Byron Katie

  By Valen July 21, 2015 July 21, 2015 relationships
byron katie relationship advice

“I’ve always been just me, but I was the last to know that it was all right.” ― Byron Katie   I’ve read just about all of the best relationship advice books, but none of them really helped to permanently change the struggles I’ve had in relationships. Until now. I discovered the Byron Katie … Continue reading

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Is Your Victim Mentality Ruining Your Life?

  By Valen June 3, 2015 June 3, 2015 relationships
victim mentality

Reacting to our reflections in this world is what true insanity is. -Michael Brown   You may not think you are someone who has a victim mentality, but we often don’t see clearly the very things that are limiting us.  All of us are letting past stories affect our present, and it … Continue reading

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How To Be Outrageously Open

  By Valen November 10, 2014 July 3, 2015 relationships
how to be open

Keep your hands open, and all the sands of the desert can pass through them. Close them, and all you can feel is a bit of grit.’~Taisen Deshimaru I have a confession to make. I lived the early part of my life closed off.  After many experiences starting in childhood … Continue reading

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How To Receive (For Givers)

  By Valen October 25, 2014 October 25, 2014 relationships
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Treasure the love you receive above all. It will survive long after your gold and good health have vanished. — Og Mandino Our world gives constant messages that it is better to give than receive, and while giving is a wonderful thing, many givers have a hard time being on … Continue reading

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How To Stop Putting Others (And Yourself) On A Pedestal

  By Valen October 13, 2014 April 28, 2015 relationships
stop putting others on a pedestal

We like to put people on a pedestal, give them one character trait, and if they step outside of that shrinelike area that we blocked out for them, then we will punish them.-Madonna Ciccone I happen to be writing this from Nepal.  There are a lot of gods and goddesses … Continue reading

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Why You Should Stop Chasing Love

  By Valen September 25, 2014 March 30, 2015 relationships
stop chasing love

Spend less time chasing people and more time chasing your dreams. -Unknown We’ve all done it. We let our egos convince us that we were meant to be with someone even though all of the signs pointed otherwise. The sooner we come to realize that love is an opportunity and … Continue reading

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What Is True Love Anyway?

  By Valen September 18, 2014 September 22, 2014 relationships
how to find true love

You must marry your soul.  That wedding is the way. -Rumi In 2011, I was outside the temple at Burning Man, and suddenly a wedding took place. But, this wasn’t just any wedding. This was the most beautiful wedding I have ever seen. It was a wedding that used shamanic … Continue reading

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