“If you do follow your bliss you put yourself on a kind of track that has been there all the while, waiting for you, and the life that you ought to be living is the one you are living. Follow your bliss and don’t be afraid, and doors will open where you didn’t know they were going to be.”
― Joseph Campbell

 

Are you afraid of following your bliss? A lot of people are. People are afraid of doing what they love, of being happy. They are afraid if they come across as too happy or full of too much joy that people will dislike them, or they will be thought of as selfish. I’ve got news for you. You can’t fully give your gift to the world until you are following your bliss.

It is a trap of society that makes us feel like we just have to get through to the weekend, or that we have to be with partners we don’t fit with any more, or that we can’t move to a new country, or that we must stay in the job we hate. If you aren’t happy, if you’re not following your bliss, then you aren’t giving your true self to the world. When you aren’t giving your true self to the world, everyone suffers.

There’s something inside you that knows when you’re in the center, that knows when you’re on the beam or off the beam. And if you get off the beam to earn money, you’ve lost your life. And if you stay in the center and don’t get any money, you still have your bliss.-Joseph Campbell

 

If you aren’t feeling happy about your job, you aren’t going to be giving your best you to that job. The thing is many people sleepwalk through their lives and don’t even stop to realize they aren’t really happy. I knew someone who worked so hard and had such a hectic travel schedule with their job that they actually had to be hospitalized because of stress. Still this person proclaimed that they loved their work. This was while their drawers and cabinets were full of bottles of Xanax that they took each day just to get through it.

Today, we medicate ourselves with drugs, alcohol, the internet, TV, and many other things, so we don’t have to feel our own unhappiness. I invite you to take an honest look at your life and to ask yourself if you are really present.

And, no, following your bliss doesn’t mean you will feel blissful 100% of the time. It takes hard work to make your dreams come true. Relationships aren’t always easy, and working out the challenges won’t always feel blissful. But, if we know we’ve reached the end, we do ourselves and the other person a favor by letting them go, rather than stringing them along when we could be keeping them (and ourselves) away from a person that is a better match. If our heart is no longer in the job we are doing, we start working on doing something that we can fully put our hearts in. Trust me, your coworkers will appreciate that!

When you choose to live a life of following your bliss, you become immediately aware when things in your life aren’t working the way you want them to. And, you begin the work of creating the life you want to be living. You become present in your life instead of numbing yourself and trying to escape from it.

The Consequences Of Following Your Bliss

“It is my opinion that enjoying yourself in the present and loosening your definition of time slows the aging process.”
― Frederick Dodson, Parallel Universe of Self

 

When you start radiating bliss, something incredible will start happening.  Bliss is a frequency. Our bodies actually respond to bliss on a cellular level. Have you noticed that certain elderly people look nothing like their age? Have you noticed that these certain people are also living a blissful life? They have chosen to be happy, and it shows up in the cells of their body! Have you noticed the extra energy that you have when you are following your bliss? It seems like you don’t get tired or even hungry. You don’t want to stop what you are doing! This is our body responding at a chemical level to bliss.

You also start feeling fully the true pleasures of things because you aren’t using pleasures to medicate yourself. There is a difference between the feeling of tasting a glass of wine and truly tasting it with pleasure and merely drinking it to get the buzz that takes you away from reality. There is a difference in having a sexual experience with someone in which you are truly present and one in which you are just using as a means of escape.

“There is no need for us all to be alike and think the same way, neither do we need a common enemy to force us to come together and reach out to each other. If we allow ourselves and everyone else the freedom to fully individuate as spiritual beings in human form, there will be no need for us to be forced by worldly circumstances to take hands and stand together. Our souls will automatically want to flock together, like moths to the flame of our shared Divinity, yet each with wings covered in the glimmering colors and unique patterns of our individual human expression.”
― Anthon St. Maarten

 

You are also going to attract people and circumstances into your life at the level you are at. Life will seem to flow effortlessly, and give you exactly what you need. You will be more in touch with yourself, so that you will hear the messages of your soul more clearly. You are going to love and accept yourself more easily, and as a result, will start to accept and love others more easily, too.

Bliss is the pathway to love. When we allow bliss to flow through our bodies, we will want give freedom to others to be exactly who they are. This will be easy because we are giving ourselves the freedom to be who we are. We won’t stop at allowing. We will actually support others and help them to follow the calling of their souls. This is the greatest love we can give. We won’t need to control them. We will realize that we were the selfish ones for expecting them to show up a certain way.

Following your bliss gives your life meaning, belonging, and a sense of purpose. So, tune into your deepest dreams and desires. They are there for a reason. Stop treating them as mere fantasies. That is your soul calling. How are you going to answer?

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Some of us think we know what our life purpose is, but it seems like whatever we do, it is a struggle to actually follow that life purpose. Others of us don’t have a clue as to what our life purpose is. We just know that we have one and we would like to find it.

I am here to tell you that if you are trying to think your way to your life purpose, that you are never going to find it. Knowing your life purpose isn’t going to come through your mind. You have to use your heart. When you feel your way to your life purpose, you will use your heart to ignite passion, the passion that will make following your life purpose effortless and easy.

Now some of you who just read that: Your mind is already arguing. It’s feeling left out. It doesn’t see how it’s not needed to discover your path in life.

I am here to tell you that your mind is designed to keep you safe. It isn’t going to let you out of your comfort zone. It doesn’t like change. Fear comes from the mind. It’s going to tell you every reason your real life purpose isn’t going to work out for you. It’s going to try to convince you that you “need” that corporate job that is killing your soul, because you need the money. It will try to convince you that it’s your real purpose. Or, it will try to convince you that other paths are your true purpose which are not. The mind tries to control everything. It tries to force things, and make them happen. Whereas, the heart surrenders and allows life to flow.

How To Find Your Life Purpose By Using Your Heart

The heart knows. The heart is the one that will awaken you to your life. When you let your heart lead you to your purpose, you won’t have to obsessively plan anything. When you live life through your heart, life rises up to meet you. Things seem to magically happen to get you to where you need to be. But, it takes being aware of how your heart feels, so you don’t miss these opportunities.

Our soul holds our life purpose, and its messenger is the heart. If we learn to receive its messages, it will lead us in the direction that we are meant to go.

Living life through the heart means saying yes to opportunities that rise up even though they may not be things that your mind is usually attracted to. You will also see when situations aren’t working. You will feel when things seem to be a struggle, and you will let those situations and people go.

“Remember that wherever your heart is, there you will find your treasure.”-Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

You know you are in your heart when you are doing activities where you lose track of time. Inspiration just floods your entire being, and you feel happy. We really are meant to be happy. Life isn’t meant to be a struggle.

When the heart leads us, we become willing to try new things. We become willing to release old patterns, and we try new ways of doing things. Our heart isn’t afraid of failing. Our heart knows that when we follow the calling of the soul, there is no such thing as failure. When we are on the right path, there is no experience we have that isn’t one that the soul has chosen.

“Within the sacred space of the heart, you have recorded your heart’s deepest desire that you wish to manifest and live more than any other thing or event. It is there for you to remember, your purpose for coming to Earth in the first place-the very reason for being here.”-Drunvalo Melchizedek, Living In The Heart

Start looking at the influence you are having on others around you. What are they telling you that you are good at? How are you blessing them? Those are clues to your purpose.

What are you judging yourself for? Oftentimes, we dislike the very thing about ourselves that can be a clue as to what we are supposed to be doing. Our mind judges the very gift that we have to give. For the longest time, I judged myself because I thought I talked too much. Once I started living life through my heart, I saw that I had a great gift with the words that I spoke. I also started listening to others more through my heart, and realized I could respond through my heart to others and with fewer words. I realized part of  my purpose isn’t just in the words that I speak and write, but it also has a lot to do with listening to others. Very few of us listen to others with our hearts, but I have learned to do that, and not only that, it’s part of my purpose!

When we let our hearts lead, things in our lives become more than just about us. We feel compassion and realize our purpose as it relates to the whole. We see our part in helping all of humanity. When we start helping others, our value isn’t based on the money we make. It’s based on how much we are helping and loving others.

When you look for your purpose through your heart, it becomes less about what will make you happy and fulfilled in your life. It becomes more about what you can do to improve the lives of others. And, when you start improving the lives of others, you come to realize, there is nothing more fulfilling than that. After all, that is the true path of the heart.

Our hearts are so much bigger than our minds (The HeartMath Institute has discovered that the human heart generates the largest and most powerful energy field of any organ in the body, including the brain within the skull. In fact,the electromagnetic output of the heart is up to sixty times stronger than that of the brain.) Isn’t it time to become bigger than ourselves? It’s possible if we let the heart lead.

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“What if the point of life has nothing to do with the creation of an ever-expanding region of control? What if the point is not to keep at bay all those people, beings, objects and emotions that we so needlessly fear? What if the point instead is to let go of that control? What if the point of life, the primary reason for existence, is to lie naked with your lover in a shady grove of trees? What if the point is to taste each other’s sweat and feel the delicate pressure of finger on chest, thigh on thigh, lip on cheek?

What if the point is to stop, then, in your slow movements together, and listen to the birdsong, to watch the dragonflies hover, to look at your lover’s face, then up at the undersides of leaves moving together in the breeze? What if the point is to invite these others into your movement, to bring trees, wind, grass, dragonflies into your family and in so doing abandon any attempt to control them? What if the point all along has been to get along, to relate, to experience things on their own terms? What if the point is to feel joy when joyous, love when loving, anger when angry, thoughtful when full of thought? What if the point from the beginning has been to simply be?”― Derrick Jensen, A Language Older Than Words

Does that scare you? The thought of having no control. The thing is even if you aren’t a control freak, the thought of having no control scares most of us. I recently had to admit that I was a control freak. I had a vision of myself as a toddler, running through a nursery, and grabbing all the toys. I was holding them so tightly that I was breaking them. I was stepping on and killing all the animals and breaking all the toys in my way (terrible, right?!) to get to what I thought I needed to control. Tears came to my eyes, as I saw that this was how I had approached most things in my life. Yeah, as a rising Leo, I pretty much thought that the sun wouldn’t rise each day without my help.

But, life, (who has a very gentle voice, by the way, which is why we don’t often hear it) said to me, “Oh honey, you’ve been acting this way because this is how you were taught. This has been your only example.  It’s OK. You have been given a lot of false beliefs that you weren’t born with. But, I am here to show you a better way.”

Life showed me that my inner control freak had a closed fist. This is why it had been so hard for me to receive from people. I had been so busy trying to control things and going after what I thought should be mine, that I wasn’t allowing life to just show up. If we work on getting our own energy and thoughts in alignment (which is the only thing we can control), then we will magnetically attract the perfect situations to us. I saw a new way of being. I could just be the observer of what was happening in my life with no need to control it. Is every situation going to be perfect?

Well, yes, and no. I might attract interactions with others that aren’t necessarily fun, but I am attracting my own mirror. So, if a situation occurs in my life that rubs me the wrong way, I can look within to see where I am wounded. I can drop the anger. It’s not needed. What I need to do instead is observe what it is within me that makes me angry or makes me feel like I need to control the situation. I can look deeper to see where my fear lies. A need to control is always just a layer above a fear. A fear that if something doesn’t go a certain way, something uncomfortable will happen. That’s where the real growth is. Figuring out where my fears are, so I can dismantle them one by one, and then attract something better.

I also learned that I could be a control freak because I liked my way of doing things. I realized that everyone has their own way of doing things, and no one is wrong. Everyone is doing what is right for them. Here’s how I changed my way of thinking.

“In the dance of life, pull down your own oxygen mask first, then take a deep breath and help everyone else. They’ll thank you for it, believe me.”
― John C. Parkin, Fuck It: The Ultimate Spiritual Way

5 Ways To Dismantle Your Control Freak:

1. Look At Life As An Adventure

Remember when you were a kid? You didn’t care how things were done, which route your parents took when they were driving, or how you got to a certain place. You were just along for a ride. Do you remember how adventurous everything was? Try to get back to that space. Be in the moment and just allow. Allow what is happening around you to happen without your judgements. You will be surprised a lot more and notice a lot more scenery.

2. Have Open Hands And An Open Heart

If our hands and hearts are closed, they can’t be open to receive the good things that come our way. Everything in life will just happen without our help (yes, even the sun rising.) If you work on allowing, this will attract exactly what you need into your life (even though you may not think so at the time).

3. Listen And Learn From Other People

I have learned that everyone who shows up in my life is my teacher. Yep, everyone (including that ultra-annoying person). While I may think I know the best way, oftentimes, I realize I don’t. I am learning to shut up and listen to others and what they have to teach me.

4. Flow

If you observe life, you will see there is a natural flow to absolutely everything. That is the natural state of things. I now try to spend most of my time controlling my own thoughts rather than trying to control circumstances or people outside of myself which I really have no control over anyway. Just letting things flow and changing my thoughts on a situation allows life to flow effortlessly without me getting in the way.

5. Practice Not Controlling Things By Delegating And Looking For Experiences That Make You Feel Out Of Control

Let other people help you.( yeah, I know, frightening). Invite people into your life who scare you, who make you uncomfortable. Don’t run away when you start to have intense feelings that you can’t control for someone you really like. Do something that you’re not good at. Let yourself look stupid. Stop doing. Breathe. Do absolutely nothing for a day. Observe your thoughts. Listen. Color. Outside the lines. Have a beer. For breakfast. Tell someone how you feel about them. Right now. Fingerpaint. Ignore something that upsets you. Travel somewhere that isn’t comfortable. Just be. Laugh. Loudly. Surrender. Yes. All the way.

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We have all been guilty of it. We forget our own value and start playing small. We then attract people into our lives that make us feel that way. And you know what? We play the game with them. We chase after the ones who make us feel less than we are.

The whole world lays before us, but we chase after people who make us feel like we aren’t enough. We set low goals and expectations for ourselves. We plan to just write the book, rather than write a bestseller. We try to just make it through each work day, rather than looking for a job we truly enjoy. We plan to just “get by” in life rather than asking for the ginormous things we deserve.

Why do we keep playing small? We play small because we are afraid of our own power. You know it’s there. You feel the wild thrill of how big you are flowing through your veins, but you are terrified. You are terrified that it’s just an illusion. You are terrified that you will fail. You are afraid if you don’t reach the high expectations that you have set for yourself that you are a failure. And so, you settle for less.

But, guess what? Your life wants so much more than just the small stuff for you. Your life has ginormous plans for you, but you have to own it. Yes, you won’t always reach your ginormous goal the first time you reach for it. That is part of the process of life. And what we perceive as failure isn’t always failure. Sometimes we plan one thing, but life leads us one way, so we can actually become the thing we were meant to be.

We have to learn to trust life. But trusting life, means giving life something in return. You have to show life your worth. Failure is not reaching for the things we want in life. Failure is staying in a relationship with someone who doesn’t show us the true respect and love we deserve. Failure is aiming low. Failure is being afraid to succeed. Failure is playing small.

Admit what you really want. Admit that you deserve it. Admit that you really are enough. Admit that no one can take your enoughness away from you. There is nothing you have to do to be enough. You are enough because you exist. Thank you for all that you are. Now get out there and be ginormous!

I also want to offer a free 15-minute Skype session (1 per person) to anyone who wants help figuring out what ginormous plans life has for you. Email me at [email protected]  for your free session today. 

I’ll live where I want when I retire. I’ll get to it later. I’ll just work in the corporate world for ten years, and then I will create a life I enjoy. I’ll do it tomorrow.

How many times have we promised ourselves tomorrow only to find it never arrives? In today’s world, we often put aside our dreams for comfort, our passions for security, and we let our fears take away our power. We choose unfulfilled lives for freedom, thinking that we can always do it differently tomorrow.

People don’t follow their dreams because they are afraid. They are afraid of losing security. They are afraid if they do what they want, they will die. They have become comfortably numb.

What should scare them is that life is short. The reality is if we don’t follow our purpose, our passions, our joys, that’s when the death begins. And the soul’s death is one hundred times worse than the body’s.

The problem is we aren’t guaranteed tomorrow. We are only guaranteed this present moment. And we are telling the Universe who we are by the actions we display in only this moment. That’s it. That’s all we have. That’s who we are.

We also miss some of the most special moments of our lives because we think we will have time for them later. We tell ourselves that we will do the things we enjoy when we retire. We will go fishing, we will travel, create art, we will do so much…..later. But, later never comes. There is always something standing in the way.

So, I want to propose that we change this way of thinking. I want to propose that we encourage and inspire each other. I propose that we start a Twitter campaign now. Let’s take the world by storm. You think you have time, but right now, time has you. Let’s change this.

Using the hashtag, #youthinkyouhavetime write your dreams, the thing you always wanted to do. But, don’t stop there. Write about the things in each day that bring you joy. Write about the things that you are saving until later. Write the name of your favorite beach. You know. The one that’s your screen saver that you promised yourself you would visit later.

Let’s get inspired. Let’s find a way to do them now.

I also want to offer a free 15-minute Skype session to anyone who wants guidance to start living their dreams now. Because time is running out. And, I want to help. #youthinkyouhavetime. Let’s do it now.

Email me at [email protected] to get some encouragement from me, and let’s all make use of the time that we have. Let’s change the world one second at a time.

“Begin at once to live and count each separate day as a separate life.” ~Seneca

How are you feeling about your life today? Are you excited about it? Do you wake up each day in anticipation? Are you thrilled to see what’s coming next?

Stop for a moment and think of your ideal day. There are no limits. Even better, write it down. Write down every moment from the time you wake up until the time you go to sleep.  What are you doing? Who are you spending time with? What is happening? Make sure you write this in the present tense, as if it were happening now. There are no limits. Write down anything and everything that comes to mind.

Now, that you are finished, do you recognize your life? Are you actually living how you say you want to live?

If you aren’t, why not? Many of us want our life to be different in some way. But, we are letting fear stop us from making the changes we need to in order to create the life we want. You are a creator, and you have the ability to create your life exactly the way you want to.

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Yes, it will cause changes. And, yes, there will be a cost. Every lifestyle has a cost. The person who quits their job to travel has to leave their family and friends behind to do so. The person who decides to dedicate themselves to climbing the corporate ladder may not have the time for a relationship or to dedicate to their passion for writing or art. The person who decides to follow their heart and start a new business may have to work long hours to make it happen. The person who decides to go after their dream job may have to get used to having less money for a while.

The thing is that most of the things we are afraid of losing are just attachments that aren’t the real things in life that make us truly happy. We have been led to believe by society and the media that status, fame, wealth, and material possessions will make us happy. These things will all disappear one day when you die. Focus on the things in your life that do matter instead. Life is short, and should be spent on doing the things you love. The cost of not following your soul’s calling will always be greater than the material attachments you are giving up to create the life you want.

The question is are you willing to pay the price to follow your heart? Yes, it may mean giving up a few expensive dinners and the latest version of an iPhone, so you can follow the life that is meant to be yours. It may mean moving to a smaller house or selling some of your stuff on Ebay so you can fund your trip around the world.  It may mean going to school after your day job, so you can take theater or art classes.

You may be in a hard situation at the moment with nothing but debt and bills, and it may mean going through some difficult years while you work three jobs to climb out of that situation, but start taking the steps right now to do so. The steps can be small. You won’t create your ideal life overnight, but you can start creating something new right now.

We all have choices in our life, and the choices that you are making right now are creating your future. They are creating your day, whether it be an ideal one or an exact replication of the day you had yesterday which wasn’t much, and is worlds away from the one you wish to be living.

Maybe, you already know the ways that you want your life to change, but you are spending the majority of your time doing things that don’t really matter. Once you know what direction you want your life to flow in, then that’s also where you need to spend the majority of your time. Spend the majority of your time creating that life, not on the life you already have.

It’s going to take a full commitment on your part to make it come true. The Universe listens to how committed you are, and will always give all that it takes to meet you in the middle. Notice, I said meet you in the middle. You see, part of creating is also action. We are creators who are meant to create. It’s not just thoughts that create your reality. Your action creates worlds of energy into making something happen.  The Universe is in partnership with you, and needs you to do your part, too.

What small step can you take today to start creating the life that you want to be living? Create a life that you don’t want to get away from.  Start now.

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I have always believed that in the lives of individuals, the profoundest changes take place within a very reduced time frame. When we least expect it, life sets us a challenge to test our willingness to change; at such a moment, there is no point in pretending that nothing has happened or in saying that we are not yet ready. The challenge will not wait. Life does not look back. A week is more than enough time for us to decide whether or not to accept our destiny.-Paulo Coelho

You hear the call. You know there are better things you want to be doing with your life. But, have you fully decided to embrace what life is offering you? You may have decided on a new course of action in your mind, but until you start taking action, the life you want to create remains unmanifest.

Here are 5 Ways To Stop Procrastinating Now: 

1. Don’t Try To Finish Your Project All At Once.

Many people who have ideas to start businesses, start going to the gym, or to take a year off and travel the world never get around to accomplishing these things because the steps to make it happen seem overwhelming. So, another day goes by and they still haven’t done anything to accomplish their dream .

The easiest way to stop procrastinating is to break your project into small parts. Start by making a to-do list of everything that you need to do to make your idea real. At first, that list might seem overwhelming, but don’t let it scare you. This list is the map to making your dream come true. Now set deadlines for each item on the list. Schedule the items into your planner just as if you were scheduling a coffee date with a friend. Honor this time you have scheduled. After all, the time you are spending to create your idea is time you are spending creating your dream.

2. Stop Multi-Tasking.

In today’s world, we have forgotten how to put our attention on one thing at a time. When you are spending time creating your ideas, do only that. Shut off your phone. Stop looking at Facebook or Pinterest, and devote your time fully to getting your project done. I also like to wear noise-canceling headphones when I work. They put me in a cocoon of productivity that makes me less likely to be distracted by outside sounds.

A great way to improve your focus when working is to listen to binaural beats. Binaural beats use certain sound frequencies to change the patterns of your brain, and help inspire creativity and focus.

It’s easy to waste a lot of time on the computer that we could be using to work on our projects. RescueTime is an app that you can use to track the time you spend on websites. You might be surprised at just how much time you spend on social media, time that you could be using to bring your ideas into reality. RescueTime also blocks websites of your choosing for specific amounts of time, so you won’t be tempted by them.

 3.  Change Your Setting.

I am a writer, and I plan several trips per year to the beach per year because that setting inspires me the most. Are you an active person who is having trouble sitting down to create your to-do list? Take a voice recorder and record your to-do list while you are hiking. Ok, I know this is multi-tasking, but sometimes multi-tasking can be good when it’s used in the right way.  The best ideas don’t always come when you are sitting still. Are you dreading the lines you will have to wait in while getting a business permit? Take your favorite book to read while you are spending time waiting.  Try to find ways to make the action steps more fun and enjoyable.

4. Involve Others.

Tell other people about the project you have begun. If we hold ourselves accountable to others, we motivate ourselves to get the work done. It’s great to have a support system to encourage us along the way. If you can, find a friend who is also working on a project. Then, help each other take the steps to accomplish the to-do list. You can learn from each other and have more fun in the process.

5. Prioritize.

Make sure you take the most important steps to creating your dream first. They may be the hardest steps to take, but once you take them, your momentum will carry you forward to accomplish the rest of your tasks.

When I am creating something, I don’t just prioritize my to-do list. I also prioritize each day. When I wake up in the morning, I envision what I will accomplish that day. Then, before I check email or let myself get distracted by anything else, I do some work on the goal I had set for the day. This keeps me on track for the rest of the day.

6.  Change Your Thinking

If you can’t seem to stop procrastinating, ask yourself why you are putting your ideas on hold. Are you afraid of being successful or getting what you want in life. Are you afraid that you aren’t worthy? Are you afraid of failing? Look at the real reason you are procrastinating and work on changing your thought patterns. Sometimes, life gives us inspiration and ideas because it is calling us forth. It wants us to use our gifts and bring inspiration into the world. But, if you don’t take the action, it will support someone else who is willing. The world is waiting with bated breath to see if you will answer the call.

Hopefully, these tips will help you to stop procrastinating and start creating the life you deserve. Just remember, you may have to go through some discomfort and changes to get there, but just think of the consequences if you never take action. Which is worse?

So what step are you going to take today? Leave a comment below and let me know!

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